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Anxiety in High Achievers
How Therapy Helps You Slow Down Many high achievers silently carry the weight of anxiety, depression, and even unrecognized trauma...
Bay Area Mental Health
Sep 205 min read
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The Fragmented Self: How Trauma Creates Parts and Why Integration Heals
Have you ever felt outside of yourself, watching your actions and hearing your words but feeling like they aren’t yours? Maybe there’s a...
Bay Area Mental Health
Aug 286 min read
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When Healing Can't Wait: Why AI Isn't Your Therapist (But Doesn't Have to Be Your Enemy)
Healing doesn't keep office hours. Sometimes the ache rises at 2 a.m. Or sneaks in during the quiet space between meetings. Or catches...
Bay Area Mental Health
Aug 124 min read
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Learning to Feel Safe Again
Guest Blog by Jay Siegmann Jay is a non-binary, neurodivergent storyteller and creator who I had the pleasure to meet via Substack. They...
Bay Area Mental Health
Jul 26 min read
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Masking Isn’t Pretending—It’s Survival
The Cost of Hiding Neurodivergence and the Courage to Come Home to Yourself It doesn’t always look like hiding. Sometimes it looks like...
Bay Area Mental Health
Jun 24 min read
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Living in Survival Mode Does Not Mean You Are Living
You look good. You show up. You get through the day.
Maybe you even manage a smile. You might be the person others rely on—the dependable one, the responsible one, the one who always seems okay.
On the outside, you're functioning. On the inside, you might feel numb, overwhelmed, or like you're holding your breath without even realizing it.
This may be survival mode. And here’s a truth that deserves space: living in survival mode is not the same as living.
Bay Area Mental Health
May 155 min read
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Healing Isn’t Linear, It’s Seasonal
We live in a culture that loves straight lines. We expect progress to look like an upward graph: start low, end high, and with a steady incline in between.
But healing doesn’t follow that pattern. It doesn’t move cleanly from broken to whole, from pain to peace.
Healing is wild. It’s slow. It loops and spirals and returns to places you thought you’d already passed through. It unfolds more like a season than a schedule. And once you start seeing it this way, everything soft
Bay Area Mental Health
May 84 min read
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Small Boundaries, Big Energy: Why Tiny Acts of Self-Protection Matter So Much
Little ripples can lead to a big changes We often think of boundaries as big, hard things. A confrontation. A breakup. A tough...
Bay Area Mental Health
Apr 304 min read
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Anxiety is Not the Enemy
What if your anxiety isn’t a problem to fix—but a message to listen to? Anxiety is one of the most common mental health concerns in the...
Bay Area Mental Health
Apr 155 min read
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You Might Be Carrying Trauma Without Even Knowing It, and How Trauma Therapy Can Help
For those who never thought trauma applied to them—but still feel stuck, anxious, or disconnected. You’ve never been in a warzone. You...
Bay Area Mental Health
Mar 305 min read
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Overcoming Urgency Addiction
The wisdom I share in this blog comes from my own personal insights as well as insights gained from my clinical work. This week I’m going...
Bay Area Mental Health
Mar 273 min read
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The Attitude is Gratitude!
In the frantic pace of daily life, with its ups, downs, and everything in between, it can be easy to focus only on the challenges and...
Bay Area Mental Health
Nov 20, 20243 min read
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The Magic of Present Moment Awareness
Living in the moment isn't just a whimsical idea—it's a practical tool for living a fulfilling life. Present moment awareness, or...
Bay Area Mental Health
Oct 25, 20242 min read
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The Dance of Anxiety and Avoidance
Avoidance. We all do it from time to time, but why  do we do it and is there a better option that can help us live more fulfilling lives?...
Bay Area Mental Health
Oct 21, 20242 min read
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Navigating Burnout and Reclaiming Your Vitality
Long before COVID, we were experiencing an epidemic of loneliness and I believe we have a new epidemic on the rise now in our post-COVID...
Bay Area Mental Health
Oct 18, 20242 min read
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What If It's More Than Just a Bad Day? Understanding and Coping with Clinical Depression
I want to address a common misconception that often shadows our discussions about mental health: the difference between experiencing a...
Bay Area Mental Health
Oct 14, 20242 min read
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When Emotions Take the Wheel
Emotions are complex and tricky. Without them life would not feel worthwhile, but sometimes they get unruly and really cause problems! It...
Bay Area Mental Health
Oct 14, 20242 min read
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Caring for the Neurodivergent Nervous System
Neurodivergence isn’t just a label, it’s a lens through which many experience the world. The differences are not deficits but variations...
Bay Area Mental Health
Sep 30, 20246 min read
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Breaking the Chains of Trauma: Strategies for Healing and Growth
Experiencing trauma can shatter one's sense of safety, leaving deep emotional scars that linger long after the event has passed. Trauma...
Bay Area Mental Health
Jul 29, 20246 min read
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Lessons from Over the Rainbow Bridge
I’ve had many teachers in my life and I owe them all so much GRATITUDE. But among them all, it was a tiny little furball with a firey...
Bay Area Mental Health
Mar 7, 20243 min read
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